{"id":3850,"date":"2016-02-15T16:05:23","date_gmt":"2016-02-15T14:05:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/projesus.ro\/en\/?p=3850"},"modified":"2016-02-15T13:49:39","modified_gmt":"2016-02-15T11:49:39","slug":"romantic-movies-affect-our-perception-regarding-the-normal-behavior-of-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/projesus.ro\/en\/love-family\/romantic-movies-affect-our-perception-regarding-the-normal-behavior-of-men.html","title":{"rendered":"Romantic movies affect our perception regarding the normal behavior of men"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The University of Michigan conducted an unusual study in order to check how romantic movies wrongly promote the \u2018love conquers all\u2019 myth.<\/p>\n<p>The researchers, in front with Julia R. Lippmann, included in the study a group of women who were asked to watch three romantic comedies (like &#8220;There\u2019s Something About Mary&#8221;) and another group of women who were asked to watch three thrillers (like &#8220;Sleeping With the Enemy&#8221;). It is about the <a href=\"http:\/\/crx.sagepub.com\/content\/early\/2015\/02\/13\/0093650215570653.abstract\" target=\"_blank\">study <\/a>called &#8220;I Did It Because I Never Stopped Loving You&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>After the views, the researchers found out through the applied questionnaires that <strong>women who watched romantic comedies<\/strong> \u2013 where the aggressiveness of men is oftenly shown in a positive light because they simply do not accept to take &#8220;no&#8221; for an answer &#8211; <strong>were more likely to relate to the aggressive male behavior as to a normal one.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Romantic movies, as Lippman says, cause women to agree &#8220;false or exaggerated beliefs regarding harassment, thus minimising its seriousness, which means that someone who strongly endorses the persistent conqueror myth tends to take harassment less seriously&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-1 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-1' class='gallery galleryid-3850 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/matthew-mcconaughey-defends-romantic-comedy.jpg'><img width=\"670\" height=\"377\" src=\"https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/matthew-mcconaughey-defends-romantic-comedy.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/matthew-mcconaughey-defends-romantic-comedy.jpg 670w, https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/matthew-mcconaughey-defends-romantic-comedy-250x141.jpg 250w, https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/matthew-mcconaughey-defends-romantic-comedy-120x68.jpg 120w, https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/matthew-mcconaughey-defends-romantic-comedy-500x281.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 670px) 100vw, 670px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>Watching romantic movies where the conqueror goes all the way even with an obsessive behavior, may affect the healthy perception of women regarding this behavior of follower, the spectator women being more inclined to disobey their instincts. And the advertisings that go on the same path are only some &#8220;supporting&#8221; pillars to encourage the same idea.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Regarding teenage girls, romantic comedies (and not only) can inoculate to them the thinking that a real man should play <em>hard-to-get<\/em>,<\/strong> in order to have a dream relationship. As such, they are liable to trivialize certain negative behaviors of male and have a misperception regarding love.<\/p>\n<p>Unlike this finding, women who watched thrillers (action films with explicit violent scenes) were far more likely to call harassment of men as being what it is, eliminating from the start the myth &#8220;love conquers all&#8221; &#8211; when it is about a man who does not accept any refusal.<\/p>\n\n\t\t<style type=\"text\/css\">\n\t\t\t#gallery-2 {\n\t\t\t\tmargin: auto;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-2 .gallery-item {\n\t\t\t\tfloat: left;\n\t\t\t\tmargin-top: 10px;\n\t\t\t\ttext-align: center;\n\t\t\t\twidth: 33%;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-2 img {\n\t\t\t\tborder: 2px solid #cfcfcf;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t#gallery-2 .gallery-caption {\n\t\t\t\tmargin-left: 0;\n\t\t\t}\n\t\t\t\/* see gallery_shortcode() in wp-includes\/media.php *\/\n\t\t<\/style>\n\t\t<div id='gallery-2' class='gallery galleryid-3850 gallery-columns-3 gallery-size-full'><dl class='gallery-item'>\n\t\t\t<dt class='gallery-icon landscape'>\n\t\t\t\t<a href='https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/romantic-comedy-cliche.jpg'><img width=\"650\" height=\"419\" src=\"https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/romantic-comedy-cliche.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full\" alt=\"\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" srcset=\"https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/romantic-comedy-cliche.jpg 650w, https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/romantic-comedy-cliche-250x161.jpg 250w, https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/romantic-comedy-cliche-120x77.jpg 120w, https:\/\/projesus.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/02\/romantic-comedy-cliche-500x322.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 650px) 100vw, 650px\" \/><\/a>\n\t\t\t<\/dt><\/dl>\n\t\t\t<br style='clear: both' \/>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\n<p>In response to this (perhaps) unexpected result, New York Magazine said: \u201eScience can ruin anything (&#8230;), and now our love of romantic comedies&#8221;. It&#8217;s pretty uncomfortable to present the negative aspects of so-called<em> innocent pleasures.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>But researchers have revealed another serious issue:<\/strong> in India, where many films of Bollywood precisely focuse on this type of romantic comedies &#8211; with men who do not accept a refusal from a woman -, the number of sexual harassments is very high.<\/p>\n<p>Lippmann stressed in the end of her study:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n\u201cLove is great, but so is respect for other people. This is true even when people tell you things you don\u2019t want to hear.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h6><span style=\"color: #827f7f;\">Pro Jesus&#8217; sources:<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #827f7f;\">Child B., \u201eStudy finds romcoms teach female filmgoers to tolerate \u2018stalking myths\u2019\u201d,\u00a0<em>The Guardian<\/em>, February 3, 2016<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #827f7f;\">June L., \u201eStudy Confirms Watching\u00a0Love Actually\u00a0Is Bad for You\u201d,\u00a0<em>New York Magazine<\/em>, February 3, 2016<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #827f7f;\">Lau R., \u201eDo romantic comedies teach women that stalking is OK?\u201d,\u00a0<em>Global News Canada<\/em>, February 2, 2016<\/span><\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"The University of Michigan conducted an unusual study in order to check how romantic movies wrongly promote the \u2018love conquers all\u2019 myth. The researchers, in front with Julia R. 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